Sometimes we affect our conscience. Maybe we went against our values, or for me, it’s often when I don’t contribute to the greater good, when I become the negative thinker in a situation. My conscience gets rattled and I feel guilty. Maybe it’s something bigger playing on your conscience, you were mean, you broke a law. . And sometimes you should feel guilty if you have done wrong. It’s not always black and white of course, but we all know when we are doing something we shouldn’t
Now, on the other hand, when it comes to everyday guilt, hell I think it’s overrated. We hold ourselves to such high standards that we feel guilty for almost anything these days. Well, I do at least. Have to cancel a meeting with friends to look after me; riddled with guilt. Didn’t eat healthy enough for the week; you suck.
That inner critic can run rings around you, but hold yourself accountable for the way you listen to it, the way you react to it.
Sometimes it’s overpowering and sends you into destruction, I am highly aware of that. I’ve spent the majority of my life fighting with that, but it can’t be a fight, its got to be a knockout. A win of epic proportions, and that win? YOU of course. You can overpower that stupid little critic.